What are you worth?

Personal finance. Two incredibly intimidating words that, if I am to be quite honest, completely escape me. My knowledge of ‘personal financing’ extends to withdrawing and depositing money into my bank account. Beyond that, I’m at a bit of a loss. Which is why, when I learnt Life After Scripps was offering a workshop on personal financing, I immediately hopped on that train. As I was relieved to find out, so did a good portion of the rest of my class.

Professor Dillon—who is the most adorable and hilarious woman—led the crash course to a room full of “desperate seniors.” One of the reasons leaving Scripps feels so daunting is because for the first time in my life, I will be fully responsible for myself. I’ve never simultaneously paid rent, bought a car, managed bills, bought groceries, and worked—though that is exactly what the majority of the world is balancing. So while being wealthy does not necessarily fall under my perception of success, being financially independent does. Like most of the other students sitting in that room, I have so many visions and hopes for the future, and almost all of them require me to be in a financially secure position. This workshop was my first introduction to the steps in that life-long, ongoing process. Though I am by no means now an expert, I’ve highlighted a few points that may begin to demystify personal finance for you like it did for me:

Budgeting

A successful budget, also known as a spending plan, is contingent on creating a thorough and accurate cash flow statement.

Cash flow statement (or net income) = total income – total expenses

Total Expenses:  As Professor Dillon heavily stressed throughout the hour, the only way to control your financial life and build wealth is to know exactly where your money is going. That means following every, single penny. I’m not careless with my money, but I certainly can’t claim to keep a meticulous record of every late-night Yogurtland trip or spontaneous Target run. All those seemingly small expenditures add up to a significant, and often surprisingly large, amount. There are so many resources and tools available now to simplify the challenge of tracking your money—from online banking, to budget spreadsheets, to personal financing software. Apparently the new rage revolutionizing money management is a free site called mint.com. Valinda at CP&R recently discovered this handy innovation and, in her words, has “never been more excited about personal finance!” 🙂

Total Income: Your total income should be based off your net pay, i.e. your take home income after all taxes and deductions. Retirement savings accounts like a 401(k) or 403(b) are considered pre-tax deductions, meaning that money is deducted from your wages BEFORE taxes and put into your savings account, thereby reducing your taxable wages (that’s a good thing, yay!). You have probably heard this countless times in the past, but saving now means you are multiplying your wealth for later—all because of a magical little trick called compounding interest. Professor Dillon convinced me—‘open a savings account’ was just added to my growing to-do list for the weekend.

On another note, though this wasn’t a focus of the workshop, one line Professor Dillon said that really stuck with me was “Remember, your first job is not your career.” Most of the time, my post-graduation anxiety stems from the fear that I wont find or receive my dream job/internship/fellowship by May and will be forced into an arbitrary position completely unrelated to my passions and plans (shudder). Those are what I like to call my there-is-no-life-after-Scripps attacks. However, when I heard that line, it hit me—in a rare moment of comfort and reassurance—that seldom does a person’s first job define or limit their career path. While I would obviously prefer to be doing something I truly love this time next year, I am slowly coming to terms with the realistic possibility that I may also find myself back home in Texas working locally. Not that I am embracing that option—just understanding that it wouldn’t be permanent or reflective of the future.

P.S. In response to the title of the post, I just did the math (net worth = what you own – what you owe). As it turns out, I have a negative net worth. Awesome.

Sacrifice + Hard Work = Success

You know that movie “Yes Man” with Jim Carrey?  The one where he decides to say “yes” to everything?  That’s how I feel like I am sometimes.  I have the hardest time turning down any opportunity that comes my way, regardless of how booked my schedule is.  My tendency to overload is a blessing and a curse.  One of my favorite qualities about myself is my ambition.  Because of it, I am constantly taking on new things, building my resume, making new connections, learning new things, and (hopefully) getting closer to achieving my career goals.

The problem is I tend to take on so much that I barely have free time for myself.  For example, I am currently interning 2-3 nights a week at KTLA, broadcasting 1-3 games a week for CMS and Pomona-Pitzer, writing one article a week (which includes an interview) for TSL, while simultaneously trying to network as much as possible, perform all my “barista lead” duties at the Motley, stay on top of school work, and write my thesis.  I know, that’s a lot.  So how do I do it all?  I make sacrifices.

Last semester I had an informational interview over coffee with a woman who just graduated from USC’s broadcasting program.  At only 22 years old, she has a great full time job with a recruiting website owned by Fox Sports.  She gets to interview recruits, travel with USC’s sports teams, write articles and film online video clips for the website.  She told me that people often ask her how she got her job.  Her answer?  “I missed out on a lot of college.”

Yep, I can definitely relate.  I’ve learned that when I take on so many things, I need to start prioritizing.  Sadly the first thing to go is my fun time.  It sucks to get left behind when all my friends take a spontaneous Vegas trip because I’m meeting someone for an informational interview over coffee.  It sucks when I can’t go to my friends’ dinner party because I work until 11 pm on Friday night.  It sucks when I can’t go to the concert my sister has an extra ticket to because I have to broadcast a basketball game.

Over the last year especially, I’ve had to make a lot of sacrifices like those in order to do what’s best for myself career-wise.  It’s hard feeling like I’m missing out on my senior year of college, but I know that all my hard work now will pay off in the long run.  I also know that no matter how much fun I miss out on, the people in my life will always be understanding and supportive.  My best friends will still be my best friends even if I don’t go to every party and beach trip with them.  My mom will still love me even if she doesn’t get have weekly multi-hour long phone conversations with me.  I’m not giving up my friends and family, I’m just temporarily giving up some of the fun time I spend with them.  It doesn’t mean that we won’t be as close or have as good of relationships.

I am a firm believer in two things:

If you want something enough and are willing to work for it, you can accomplish it.
You can have everything.

Having those two things set in my mind is what made me realize that my career path is realistic and that I can be successful in it.  While I’ve had to sacrifice some things (time is finite, after all), I can still have everything I want.  The sacrifices I make are only temporary, and I have to remember that I’m sacrificing superficial things, like a beach day, not people.  As long as I want something enough, I know that I can work hard to get it, or preserve it.  Whether that means busting my butt to get my dream job, or making sure I preserve my close friendships, I know that I can have it all.  I think it’s important for everyone, especially young people to remember that.  The world is yours, take it!

In Eminem’s wise words (excuse his language): Success is my only mother****ing option, failure’s not.