Who Run the World?

Working with an all-female staff has it’s advantageous. Female representation in politics, Planned Parenthood, and women world leaders are go-to conversation starters, which creates a stimulating and inspiring work atmosphere. This is my second summer working for a small, women-only run organization – last summer there were only 2 full-time employees, this summer 10. It began to dawn on me today that it is highly doubtful that I will be able to continue working in a female-dominated work place. This realization reminded me of an article written by a Claremont student, who argued that women at Scripps College – and female education institutes in general – will not gain the appropriate skills to fight gender imbalance in the workplace. Here are some of my reflections of the skills I gained from working in an all-female atmosphere:

  1. I don’t feel judged for my clothing, outside work activities, or the foods I consume at work. My friends who are working in larger companies this summer often vent to me about how their every move seems to be scrutinized by their male co-workers. Having the experience of not feeling judged for not being into sports or having a bad hair day enables me to notice when such judgment is happening, instead of it becoming a normalized precondition to working. Having friendly coworkers who showed me from Day 1 that mistakes are OK eases my workplace anxiety. I can take this confidence to initiate conversations and share my opinions into my future internship workplaces.
  1. I feel respected by all my co-workers, from my direct supervisor to the director of the entire program. Nobody cuts me off mid-sentence, talks over me, or doesn’t fully explain an assignment. I am comfortable asking my supervisor for more responsibility, making bold edits/suggestions, and asking questions. Many people might feel absolutely fine doing these things in a male-dominated office, however I am the type to overthink everything and take social signals as cues of how to act very seriously. With the practice of raising my voice among higher-ups, I will be able to do so when I am in the minority.
  1. I feel supported in my academic/extracurricular/career interests. Women tend to value forming relationships more than men, and actively seek out how they can help others. This attitude creates a non-competitive workplace, which I really enjoy. In future internships I hope to continue seeing my colleagues as support systems, people who I can give and receive help from, and not competitors. I’ve also learned from this experience to not be scared to talk about future goals and plans. I received helpful insight when bringing up interning in D.C. [people shared their summer experiences in the city], an office I was applying to in particular [someone knew a friend who worked there], and even class registration.

CP&R Celebrates Gaypril – Interview with Alumna Berenice Villela ’12

Editor’s Note: While we generally reserve the blog for student voices, as part of CP&R’s Gaypril celebration we interviewed alumna Berenice Villela ’12 and thought her advice was too good not to share. Enjoy this perspective from a former student, and check out the resources for LGBTQ+ job searchers at the bottom!

Berenice Villela ’12 is a 7th grade math teacher at the Oakland Unified School District. She is openly out at her workplace, and has some tips for how people can be an ally at work.

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“One of the perks of working in Oakland is having teachers and administrative staff that identify as LGBTQ,” Berenice said. “At my student teaching placement, the principal was an out lesbian with a child entering the kindergarten class at the school. At my current school, I am not the only out teacher. It makes such an impact to have that community, or at least to connect with people who are queer and working in your field.”

Berenice has actively sought to develop this community more herself, by marking her space as a safe space and involving allies.

“I started a GSA for the students, trained my staff on the protections LGBTQ students have, and have found support from my colleagues and students,” Berenice said. “One way to be an ally in the workplace is to have a visible marker that identifies your space (be it office or classroom) as a safe place for LGBTQ folks. Pink triangles or equality symbols are recognizable for many in the community as a symbol for supporting LGBTQ community. Those markers alone help colleagues or clients know that they are in a safe space.”

Thanks for sharing your story with us, Berenice!

Additional Resources

Blogger and Career Consultant AnnE dug up some great additional resources for anyone considering coming out in their workplace, or anyone who wants to be an ally.