When I was younger, I went through a period around 6th grade when I was a voracious reader. I loved the adrenaline rush and comfort I got from turning pages and seeing myself get closer to the end. I loved lying in my bed and becoming so absorbed in a book that I lost all sense of time and space, and my eyes began to hurt from staring for so long.
My mom would occasionally brag to her friends that I was an “avid reader,” and it would always make me feel so proud, especially because throughout middle school I had for the most part thought I was “dumb,” or at least not as intelligent as I thought I should be. Thus, reading was something I truly did enjoy, and it was also something that felt like it was satisfying while being productive.
Sadly though, as tends to happen, over the years I became busier and more bogged down in schoolwork, and reading “for pleasure” became less of a priority. Especially in high school when my days were packed and I sometimes wouldn’t get home until 8pm or later, I really didn’t have the mental energy or the time to spend a ton of time reading. Of course, I read a lot of material for school, including many novels that I enjoyed highly, but I seldom read books out of my own volition. Instead, I developed the habit of going on my phone to unwind and de-stress. I downloaded Instagram and Facebook apps on my phone, and soon, the hours I used to spend lying in bed reading morphed into hours in bed mindlessly scrolling through my newsfeed. The worst part is that this habit still continues to this day, and it has actually gotten significantly worse.
The reason I bring all of this up, is because technology is inevitably tied to the daily lives of college-students and our professional careers. Even for non-STEM majors like myself, technological savviness and expertise seems vital for most careers. Before coming to college, I cannot tell you the number of people who suggested I take a “computer science” course, or that I learn to code, because that was “what companies are looking for these days.”
I one hundred percent agree that in 2017, it is absolutely necessary to have a pretty solid understanding of computers, how they work, and how to use them. However, I also have been reflecting a lot on my technology usage lately, and I’ve been realizing that I don’t always use it responsibly, or for the right reasons. Likewise, the more time I spend looking at a screen, the less happy and fulfilled I tend to feel. Of course, everything is okay in moderation, and using technology to assist me in my research, to watch an inspiring video, or to teach myself a new skill, might be positive ways to utilize the internet, but more often than not, I end up logging on to watch random comedians on YouTube at 2am when my eyes are already heavy from exhaustion.
My main takeaway for myself is that I am not a “technology person,” and while I generally know how to use basic forms of technology to get by, a heavily technology-based field is certainly not my calling. Just because computer science is a lucrative and rewarding major or field for some, doesn’t mean it is for me. My twin brother for instance, is a computer science major, and he really does seem to enjoy coding, making digital video games and animations, and just generally using technology. I, on the other hand, am much more inclined to sit outside with a sketchbook and a latte and watch people pass by. I also have not yet managed to find the self control to use technology in a way that doesn’t waste my time or make my brain feel like mush, so this is a skill I am constantly working on.
In the future, I’m really hoping that I will be able to find a career that limits my technology use. This might not be very feasible, but I’m trying to remain hopeful that I won’t have to stare at a computer screen or enter data into spreadsheets. Likewise, I remember when I was younger and my mom and her friends would ask me “what I wanted to be when I grew up,” I would often reply with: “I’m not sure, but I just know I don’t want to stare at a computer all day.” This sentiment still holds true.
Hopefully this summer I will have a job or internship of some sort, and after a full day of work, I can come home, and open a stained, frayed book rather than staring at a shiny computer screen.
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