Making the Most of Breaks

Many of us Scippsies are lucky enough to not have classes on Fridays, making every weekend a three day weekend! This made fall break, for both me and many of my peers, feel like quite a good chunk of time to either rest, travel or get ahead on work. In most cases, I have found that doing a combination of these things is the best way to utilize a break.

1.Rest and Travel:

Over fall break, I visited a friend at Lafayette College in Pennsylvania and chose to take the redeye when flying there. I was able to sleep on the plane ride and, although hesitant at first, was glad that I chose to take the redeye. By travelling at night I didn’t feel like I lost the 12 hours that the train ride, bus ride, uber, and plane ride surmounted to. Although not the most comfortable for resting, I did sleep while on the plane. It was rest that I desperately needed from various midterms and essays due right before fall break. I was able to both travel and rest. But most importantly, I was able to rest while travelling, truly making the best use of my time.

2.Travel and Get Ahead on Work:

Two of my friends traveled to Santa Barbara for fall break and utilized the four-hour train ride to get ahead on work. They read their Core reading that was due the week after the break. They were able to make use of the combined eight hours that could have gone to waste. Ultimately, they alieved future potential stress and budgeted time in the future to work on other projects after the break. Travelling does not have to take away from productivity. In fact, it can often facilitate productivity because of the chunks of time that travelling demands you surrender to activities that are easily done while in transport, like reading.

3.Get Ahead on Work and Rest: (and Travel a bit too!)

Another one of my friends chose to make the short commute home and was overjoyed to be sleeping in her own bed for the first time since school began. She rested more deeply than she has so far as a college student and was able to do work in the environment where she had been productive for her whole life: her childhood home and, in particular, her beloved desk. Being at home facilitated her to work more productively than she had in months.

We should remember that it is time’s gift to have no classes on Fridays, or even classes that end early on Fridays. Our weekends, although not as long as fall break, can be utilized in the same way that we utilized fall break. It is a resting time. Travelling is more than possible here at the 5C’s whether it be walking to the farmer’s market in Claremont or renting a Scripps van and visiting LA for the day. Not having morning classes like we often do Monday through Thursday is the perfect opportunity to catch up on sleep for the week ahead. Moreso, doing work to prepare for the week, rather than just for Monday, is immensely helpful in catching those Z’s once the week comes. Resting, travelling, and getting ahead are all attainable on weekends and will make the week ahead much more enjoyable.

Why It’s O.K. to be Homesick

I’m not someone who usually gets homesick. I’m the girl who lives for new adventures, longing for the thrill of immersing herself in a new place. But when I suddenly found myself over half-way done with packing, with the only major dilemma being how many shoes I will allow myself to bring to Europe, my stomach felt uneasy.

This summer, I will take my first steps into the professional media world, and I am suddenly nervous about it! I find myself asking: Will I like my boss? Will my tasks be interesting? Will I be up to the job? It is nerve wracking to go into a new work environment, without knowing exactly what to expect. The only thing I can do is maintain confidence in myself.

But last night, I wasn’t only nervous about my job. I felt sad about leaving my family. I have a seven-year old sister who I won’t see in a year, because I am studying abroad. As I hugged her goodnight last night, part of me sunk inside at the thought of missing her grow up a little. I also have a 95-year old grandmother who recently fell ill, and is now in the hospital. I visited her yesterday and was overwhelmed with how weak she now is. I want her to be there for me when I return.

I know that while I’m in Europe, I will make my own family. I will be able to spend more time with my boyfriend and develop relationships with friends I already have, while also meeting plenty of new people. And I love meeting new people. I am lucky to have some family in Germany that I can visit. I also have a good grasp on the German language. These are luxuries that other visitors may not have. And yet, it’s times like these that make me wish that it didn’t take 10 hours to fly to Germany.

It is too easy for me to get lost in a new city, forging my own way, and forgetting about what I’ve left behind. By forgetting a little, I don’t get as homesick. While abroad this year, however, I want to make sure I see my sister grow into a second grader and see my grandmother make a recovery. This summer, I hope to succeed at my internship, as well as have a wonderful time in Munich in my off-hours. Most importantly though, I want to make sure I stay connected with people at home, because they are the ones who encouraged me to follow my dreams, leading me here.

 

 

I wish I had a time machine…

I wish I had a time machine to rewind a year and begin again the incredible adventure that was study abroad. Just a couple of weeks ago marked the official One Year Anniversary of when my program began, and because of that I have been reflecting on my trip much more frequently. I find myself thinking about what I was doing this time last fall (planning a trip to the Taj Mahal) and wishing that I could re-live and re-absorb those incredible moments. The SIT program I chose was based in New Delhi, India with a focus specifically on the health and human rights of vulnerable populations throughout the country.

During the time when I began applying to study abroad, I was questioning and rethinking my decision to be pre-med. It was an internal debate that left me everyday feeling more conflicted, and I was slowly starting to think that I had made a premature commitment to medicine. I had very recently begun developing an interest in public health, but was too cautious to abandon my structured plans for med school in place of a field that was still really vague and undefined in my mind. I wanted to be able to experience public health issues and practices personally in order to determine if it was a field I actually found stimulating and fulfilling. It was this train of thought that led me to petition for the program I did. I was also beyond thrilled by the idea of returning to India (which I had visited several times growing up) as a student living in the country.

SIT is known for its experimental, field-based approach to learning. That could not be truer. For five months I was constantly immersed in the country’s dynamic spectrum of health disparities, not just through just textbooks and lectures, but also through direct connections and interactions with people and their communities. Another component of many SIT programs is an Independent Study Project (ISP), which you design and complete entirely yourself. My field study concerned the vulnerability of Kothis and Hijras, two high-risk sexual minorities, to HIV/AIDS and was beyond a doubt one of the most transformative learning experiences I have ever had. My program challenged me to face the scars underlying India’s wonders, but this only left me with a truer love for the country. I could literally go on for hours about my program and ISP, but to keep myself from writing a novel I will stop here and just say to please feel free to contact me whenever if you are interested in more details/ information.

Hanging out with adorable school kids in a rural village in Jamkhed, where we were working with an incredible organization called the Comprehensive Rural Health Project.

My friend Tania (also a fellow Scrippsie!) and me riding an elephant to the top of a fort in Jaipur, India.

To put simply, I left India inspired and impassioned to pursue global health as a career. But even setting this realization aside, I reflect on and treasure the seemingly unremarkable moments in which I felt truly integrated into the society. I loved eating street food, haggling in markets, learning to read and write Hindi, etc. Off-campus study was one of the highlights of my life so far, and I while I recognize that it is not for everyone, I would strongly encourage you to consider your options. There are few chances to live as a student in a new environment and gain an understanding of the place with a depth only afforded by complete immersion. From gaining a heightened sense of independence to a new appreciation of home, the personal merits of off-campus study are unparalleled. Take advantage of the amazingly strong and supportive Off-Campus Study department we have at Scripps! They make study abroad SO easy and accessible regardless of your major or financial aid status. Freshmen/sophomores: any ideas of where you may want to go? Seniors who went abroad, how do you feel about your off-campus study experiences? I’d love to hear your stories and thoughts— share away!

My lovely host family and me celebrating Diwali, the grand festival of lights that enlivened the entire city for nights.

And finally, a picture that I just love. The sign says “Smile and Serve” and was posted in an overcrowded, understaffed government hospital in Aligarh. You can see the long queue of patients waiting in the hallways.

 

 

Gap-Year is a Go

As a break from thesis (and running around the Inland Empire trying to have my hardrive transferred to another computer – long story short, my motherboard fried!) I have been planning and getting very excited for my ever-approaching gap-year before grad school.

I have decided to participate in BUNAC’s 6-month internship program in London, where I will be set up with a paid internship and work visa starting in October. They allow you to choose your three top areas of interest. Mine will be in psychology, arts management, or public relations. I decided this program is a great way to get hands-on experience in a field I’m interested in, earn some money, apply to grad schools, and TRAVEL the UK as far and wide as I’ve always wanted to. For the second half of my gap-year I hope to be in another country, but if I’m really inspired by my internship, I’ll take some preliminary courses in psychology before grad school.

Before making the decision to go with a liaison for a work-visa, always call the organization before handing in your application. I was comfortable using BUNAC because they have an excellent reputation, and are non-profit. They allow you to find your own paid internship, or you can use their services for a relatively small fee. From what I’ve heard, they make the visa-process a breeze for those who want to ensure that they can stay in a country for a prolonged period of time, and offer support throughout your stay. One of my favorite features of the program I discovered is that they organize meet-ups throughout the six months at various locations in the city for you to connect to other program participants and expats.

A dream internship I’ve been eyeing for the second half of my gap-year is in Tuscany, working on an estate in exchange for room, board (dinner and wine tasting every night with the guests of the estate), Italian lessons, cooking lessons with Tuscan chefs, and weekend trips in the area. Not sure if it’s in the cards for next year’s adventure, but a girl can dream, right?

On a side note to rising seniors – always back up your thesis!

In Which Valinda Points Out The Obvious

This is important: remember your resources.  Talking to Valinda and having a bit of a whine and cheese party, I stumbled upon a really obvious point: I’m going to be in the same town as a Board of Trustees member for a few days, and I should really try to take advantage of that.  Beyond the fact that I was a student rep on the BOT last year, I am aware of her existence because I worked really closely with Advancement and the Annual Fund for four years, so she’s always peripherally existed for me.

At one of these meetings, I should have introduced myself rather directly to this Scripps Board member. At the time, I found this alum formidable (in the best way possible): she’s razor-sharp intelligent and exceptionally good at her job.  She is executive staff member in Development at a college I’m making a social call to in the coming weeks, and, as Valinda gently pointed out, would be a truly excellent resource if she was both inclined and available.

So I drafted an email, and Valinda is kindly looking over it, and also very politely not teasing me about missing the obvious. Continue reading