Practice Makes Perfect

I have always enjoyed writing letters.  As a child who moved cities half-way through elementary school, writing postcards to old friends was a hobby.  Drafting and sending thank you cards, birthday cards, and everything in-between was an activity I enjoyed doing.  Therefore, when I first heard the term “cover letter,” I did not worry about having to write one.  Of course, when I first had to write a cover letter, as a Freshman in college, my mind went blank.

These past few weeks have been full of cover letters for myself and for my friends as we all apply to summer internship programs.  At first, I was intimidated by the ease at which some of my friends could quickly type one up and send it.  I for one was creating multiple drafts, asking for peer edits, and conducting rather intensive research on each program to include in my letter(s).  Was I doing it wrong?   Were my friends not doing enough?  Did any of us really know what we were doing?  

I really had no idea, so I checked out the career center for some tips on writing a good cover letter.  After figuring out the basics, I learned that it is helpful to make a little list of essentials I want to include in each letter.  First, I research the employer.  What does this organization stand for, what are past accomplishments, what are their goals?  It helped to find a way to relate to these things and include them in the letter.  Second, I look for the desired skills and qualities of interns described by the employer.  I then select specific experience from my resume to hype my qualifications up.  Third, I find it helpful to get a feel for the tone of the place I am applying to.  Based on their application description, website, or even blog, are they strict and formal?  Sometimes they can be.  Other times, they may have some humor or exclamation points in their “About Us” page.  I tried to match the tone while writing about myself.

The first cover letter that I wrote in 2018 was nerve racking to send.  However, a letter can only take so many peer edits.  If the list of my basic essentials was met, how bad could it be?  In a moment of confidence, I pressed “submit.”  The amount of relief I felt after hitting my first submit button of the semester made all of the stress worth it.  It also made me realize how a lot of the stress I was feeling was unnecessary.  I definitely overthought it, but I will always prefer to be over-prepared than underprepared for something, especially if it has to do with my professional career.

Since I sent my first one, it became easier to write cover letters.  Just like tailoring a resume, the more you do it the better at it you become.  If there is any doubt in your mind while writing one, just remember that it is your space to really prove why you are perfect for the job; so essentially like a short and condensed interview, minus the stress of being on the spot.  Cover letters can be really fun to write, and remember to never underestimate yourself, your skills, or your experience!

Picking Up Skills

A few weeks ago, I declared a Foreign Languages major in Spanish and Korean. I’m not certain where I’m going with it, but I think I’d like to teach, interpret, work for the media, or maybe serve as a diplomat or work for an international organization (again, not narrowed down in the slightest…) I would like to live abroad, maybe go to grad school abroad as well. Who knows, I may end up settling down outside of the United States?

To get to any of those places, there are some things I need to figure out, or at least work on, some skill sets that I need to develop.

The skills that I’m working on don’t involve nunchucks, but I feel like languages can be as complicated to figure out at times…

I grew up with a family that only spoke English, and I didn’t start learning languages until the last part of middle school. I really got rolling in high school, which is when I fell in love with Spanish.

Here at Scripps (well, technically at Claremont McKenna) I started Korean, which is simultaneously incredibly similar and different. It’s sometimes hard to keep the three languages straight, even when I can’t say a whole lot in Korean (yet). I tried to say in a Korean verb today with a Spanish verb ending conjugation. That was interesting.

What I really need to work on is expanding confidence and vocabulary. Because Korean is so new, I’m really working hard to take it off of the page (as well as learning more vocabulary and grammar). I’m much more coherent on paper, but I know that I have to be able to speak as well.

As far as Spanish goes, I need to keep expanding my vocabulary. It’s hard to know where to start. Like Korean though, it simply requires practice and experience.

Though I have yet to make it to a Spanish language table, I’ve been attending the Korean table every week to work on building confidence (and vocabulary skills!).

If I were to do any of the things I’m thinking about for careers, I really need to study up, or rather practice and immerse myself in situations where my language knowledge is tested and improved.

It can be really frustrating to get stuck on a tough reading for class or a near-impossible to pronounce word. It takes patience, but also an outside commitment to help with breaking these barriers. With Korean, I think of being able to watch K-dramas with my sister without reading subtitles, or emailing my friend in Seoul in Korean. For Spanish, it’s going to (hopefully someday) visit my friends in Spain, Argentina, and Mexico or speak easily with my high school Spanish teacher en español.

But sometimes you have to start with the small steps. Things don’t happen overnight, but with work over time. For now, I’m proud of the little things, but I’ll keep taking bigger steps forward.

안녕하세요! 마올리예요. 대학교 일학년이에요. ¡Hola! Me llamo Olivia Truesdale. Soy una estudiante de primer año. Hello! I’m Olivia Truesdale. I am a first year.

 

 

The End of my First Year

As I’ve been bombarded with papers and finals throughout this week, I keep saying, “This is the most stressful week of my entire life.” It comes partly as a joke, partly as a natural reaction to all the work I have. But when I really think about that statement, I realize it’s just an emotional reaction. There have been plenty weeks throughout my life that I’ve been incredibly stressed; probably even more so than I am now. As I wade through the huge amount of work I have, I can’t help by think of some advice that my mom gave me in high school: “You always get it done.” And I always do; I rarely turn in things late. I feel incredibly grateful to have people who remind me of my own capabilities in my life.

The end of my freshman year has brought on not only feelings of stress, but also feelings of how lucky I am to be that stressed. I feel incredibly lucky to be in classes that challenge me, that have forced me to grow intellectually and emotionally. I have changed more in my first year at Scripps than I did all four years of high school, and I’ve changed so much for the better. Being in an environment where passionate, open-minded people surround me has made me much more confident in myself, and get a better idea of who I want to be as a person.

It wasn’t really until the end of this year that I was able to realize how Scripps has instilled a newfound confidence in me, which has made me so radically different from the person I was in high school. Through both my classes and the people I’ve met, I’ve been able to feel accepted and comfortable enough to grow into the type of person I want to be. I have a more profound sense than ever before that everything is going to be okay, and that I’m going to become a type of person that I’ll like. Without the confidence that Scripps instilled in me, I would have never been able to get the job this summer that I know I’ll love doing. While I still have a long way to go, I know that Scripps has put me on the path towards getting where I want to be.

Everything I have in common with Reese Witherspoon

 

I recently read an article in the Wall Street Journal called “Reese Witherspoon’s New Role: Power Broker.” The title of the article immediately intrigued me: growing up, the name Reese Witherspoon conveyed images of the Playboy Bunny turned Harvard Law graduate Elle Woods, and I had never assumed that Reese had followed a similar path of ambitious career-building in her real life. The article describes how Witherspoon, tired of being offered roles of bland, one-dimensional female characters, teamed up with her friend and producer Bruna Papandrea to create a production company called Pacific Standard, that would focus on obtaining and producing stories of complex, female characters.

I really admire the way in which Witherspoon took a very real and prominent problem in the industry she was working in, and decided to tackle it hands-on. Two of the very first scripts that Pacific Standard worked with were that of Gone Girl and Wild, purchased even before the books had been released and become best sellers. Witherspoon invested her own money in Wild, which she would later star in; both movies received a variety of awards nominations. It takes an incredible faith to be able to trust in one’s gut that something is going to be a success; if Pacific Standard had failed with these two initial projects, their company would have been regarded as a farce. As a huge fan of Gone Girl and Wild, it was interesting to hear that those movies weren’t accidentally great achievements for women in Hollywood- in fact, they were very deliberate, calculated efforts to make movies that featured complex, and very “unattractive” female leads. Witherspoon describes how the script for Gone Girl, specifically, was rejected from several studios before finding a place at Universal Studios.

While Reese (as I feel comfortable calling her now) and I may have started off from very different places in our career journey, I can’t help but be inspired by the sheer guts she showed by creating a production company centered around women in an industry dominated by men. She showed a certain type of boldness in taking something she loves to do- reading- and combining it with an industry that she loves to work in. In the article, Witherspoon describes how she reads up to two books a week, and constantly visits independent bookstores in order to keep her eyes open for new literary stories. Though I don’t think I’ll be working in the film industry, I believe that that type of faith in oneself, and one’s ability to create change in a seemingly cemented set of circumstances, is important to have in any industry.

I don’t know just yet if I have that ability to trust in my gut as much as Reese does; still, after getting the job for this summer, I’ve been feeling a lot more confident in my ability to do whatever I like in the professional field of my choosing. After all, I got a job interviewing alongside people who had way more experience than me. While it’s too early to start planning ahead for next summer, the new experiences that this summer and upcoming sophomore year will bring me have me feeling more confident in who I’m becoming as a person. Reese’s story proves that this confidence- in one’s taste and in one’s ability- can be all that really matters.

We’re halfway there….

Wow! It is already late July, marking the just-past-the halfway point of my summer internship. This blog post will include some of my reflections of my internship so far, as I try to give myself an accurate self-evaluation.

The Good

From other internships, CP&R programs, and older Scripps students I learned the importance of networking. With this knowledge, I say “yes” to invitations for events, and even ask my supervisor for the OK to attend events with her that I see on her schedule. This can be awkward [at least for me, someone who worries about seeming too assertive] but I’ve realized the worst that could happen when you ask your boss if you can attend a meeting or help with a project, is that he/she says “no”. And what’s so bad about that? Since I’ve been putting myself out there with other people, besides my direct manager, they have repeatedly come to me with diverse assignments, allowing me to see different parts of the office.

Working with a small staff that includes several recent graduates has allowed me to start picturing where I’d like to be post-graduation. I’ve been able to talk to ever staff member about what their steps were after graduating college. I started thinking about what I liked/disliked about my overall work experience here, not just on the task that was on hand [I realized flexible work hours are very valuable, as well as having a supervisor who is close at hand].

The Could-Be-Better

I could always be asking for more work, if I could sit in on meetings, etc. Asking for access to more projects than I am given is a challenge for me because I worry about how it reflects on me. However, I’ve realized that I will get much more out of my time at the internship if I speak up and make myself useful.

I want to learn more about the institute I’m supporting. It is easy to go into an internship and complete your assignments and learn about the day-to-day tasks in the office. However, I’m hoping to understand the history, publications, and mission of the institution. In the remaining month of the internship I plan on setting up informal interviews with staff members to learn more about what they do, and what the organization means to them.

I’ve loved my internship so far, and the staff have been supportive and kind. It’s sad that I’m halfway done, but reflecting on the past few weeks helps me realize what more I can do here in the office!